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Paisley: Hello again, everybody.
PAISLEY imperfect here and we

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are going to dive right into it
today because I think today is

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going to be a little bit long.
It's a good thing. Our last one

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was really short. I think this
one's going to be kind of long.

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We're going to talk about elder
Bednar, elder Bednar has an

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article it was in the June 2010
Liahona, called things as they

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really are. I thought it was a
talk because I thought I

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remembered hearing him, Oh, it
was a fireside address on May 3

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2009. And then it was published
in the Liahona in June of 2010.

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So it's called things as they
really are. And it's a bit

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intense, I'm not gonna lie, he
talks about... He starts off by

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saying that he's going to review
several key elements of our

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Heavenly Father's plan of
happiness as the doctrinal

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Foundation. And this is kind of
what drew me to this, right,

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because we were talking the
other day about learning the

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doctrine as the doctrinal
foundation for knowing and

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understanding things as they
really are.

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And then he says that he's going
to talk about methods of attack

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used by the adversary to
distract us from or inhibit our

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capacity to discern things as
they really are.

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And then lastly, talk about the
responsibilities that rests upon

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the rising generation.

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Okay, so let's dive right into
that first part. The key

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elements of our Heavenly
Father's plan of happiness is

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the doctrinal foundation. So
he's mainly talking about one

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key element and that one key
element is our physical body. He

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says, so this is this is the
piece of doctrine that the rest

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of it is pretty much focused
around. He says, our physical

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bodies make possible a breadth,
a depth and an intensity of

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experience that simply could not
be obtained in our pre mortal

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state. A truth that really is
and always will be, is that the

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body and the spirit constitute a
reality and identity. They are

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our reality and identity. He
says, When body and spirit are

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inseparably connected, we can
receive a fullness of joy. When

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they are separated, we cannot
receive a fullness of joy. So

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that reminded me of a few months
ago, I was in my own personal

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scripture study, I was reviewing
Alma chapter 11. And in verses

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43 and 44, I saw something
different. I saw something in

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there that I hadn't, I hadn't
thought about in a particular

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way. I was actually listening to
this chapter. I wasn't, I wasn't

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reading it. I was listening to
it. I think I was coloring a

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picture or something at the same
time.

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And when I heard verse 43, I was
like, Wait, did he really just

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say that? And then I listen to
it a little bit longer. And then

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He says it again in verse 44.
And I was like, Hold on, I need

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to go back and listen to that.
So here's verse 43. Now

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remember, we're talking about
the body and the spirit. Okay.

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So this is Amulek, teaching with
Alma. And he says in verse 43,

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the spirit and the body shall be
reunited, again, reunited,

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again, in its perfect form, both
limb and joint shall be restored

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to its proper frame, even as we
now are at this time.

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That's only the first part of
the verse, the second part. So

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this first part of the verse
talks about the resurrection,

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the coming together of our
physical bodies and our spirits.

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And the second part talks about
the judgment. So if you're not

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familiar with the plan of
happiness, or the plan of

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salvation, or the plan of
redemption, whatever name you

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prefer, if you're not familiar
with that, I'll cover that in

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another episode, I'm sure
because I love talking about

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that. But right now, we're just
talking about the one piece and

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that's the resurrection, because
we're talking about the

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importance of our physical body.
Right? So verse 43, again, the

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very beginning, the spirit in
the body shall be reunited, re

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united again, in its perfect
form, both limb and joint shall

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be restored to its proper frame,
even as we now are at this time.

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So it made me think like when I
first heard that I was kind of

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like, Wait, what are you telling
me that just my body and spirit

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being together, is its perfect
form. Just the combination of

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the two together is its perfect
form.

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If that's the case, I got a lot
of exercising to do. I got a lot

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of work to do. So then in verse
44, it's kind of structured the

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same. The first part talks about
the resurrection. The second

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part of the verse talks about
the judgment. And I'm not going

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to get into the judgment today,
but this

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The first part of verse 44 says,
Now, this restoration shall come

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to all, both old and young,
bonden, free male and female,

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both the wicked and the
righteous. And even there shall

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not be so much as a hair of
their heads be lost, great. But

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everything shall be restored to
its perfect frame, as it is now

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or in the body.

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What? So restored, reunited, we
know that we didn't have these

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bodies before we came to this,
to we didn't have these bodies

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before this mortal experience,
right? So if they're going to be

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reunited, that's the
resurrection. But they're going

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to be reunited again, in its
perfect form.

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So our, again is the suggestion
then that and to be clear, I am

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not authorized and I don't have
the authority. I don't have the

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keys to receive revelation for
the entire church for the way

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that the scripture should be
interpreted. I'm sharing it with

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you because it hit me different.
It hit me differently this time

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than it ever had before.

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Will is the combination? And as
we go on, I'm sharing this

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because I think it's important
as we continue talking about

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what elder Bednar is talking
about with our our physical

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body. Because elder Bednar says,
quote, because the physical body

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is so central to the Father's
plan of happiness, and our

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spiritual development, we should
not be surprised that Lucifer

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seeks to frustrate our
progression, by tempting us to

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use our bodies improperly. The
very tool he does not have and

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cannot use is thus the primary
target of his attempts to lower

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us to physical and spiritual
destruction.

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Our eternity, our eternal
progression, our spiritual

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progression depends upon our use
of our physical body, our

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physical body is central to the
plan of happiness to the plan of

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salvation.

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Okay, so now that we know how
important our body is, He gives

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us to just two main ways in
which the adversary tries to

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attack this central piece of the
plan. He the two ways that he

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says is, the adversary tries to
get us to misuse our physical

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body, or to minimize its
importance. And those are the

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only two that he talks about.
But he goes into a little bit

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more detail, he goes into a lot
more detail. And I totally

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recommend going back and reading
this, it is it is intense. And I

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almost split this up into three
different episodes, because we

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could talk about this for a
really long time.

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So again, the two ways that he
talks about the adversary

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attacking us. attacking this
central piece of the plan is to

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misuse our physical body, or to
minimize its importance. So

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let's talk about the misuse part
first. And also, I just, I'm

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gonna throw this out there. I
still have this quote on this

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sticky note on my wall that
says, Satan delights in your

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misery. And I'm going to add
that he delights in your misery,

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especially if it has to do with
your physical body, because it's

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the one thing you have that he
will never get.

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Okay, misusing our physical
body. He just lists a few. And

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he says, the four that he uses
to misuse our physical body

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would be to violate the law of
chastity, to use drugs or other

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addictive substances to
disfigure or dissipate or

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deface, sorry, disfigure or
deface our bodies and the

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worshipping of the false idol of
body image, our own or that of

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others.

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Interesting, right, this was in
2009 again, and then published

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again in 2010. I would love to
see him do a follow up to this.

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Elder Bednarz intense I love it.

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Sweet elder Holland. Elder
Holland is not losing his

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intensity but his his focus is
changing. And elder Bednar is

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stepping right in there and and
being the one that's really

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hitting us in the face with the
hard stuff, right? I love it.

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Okay. He says no brothers and
sisters, I cannot tell you all

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the ways whereby you may misuse
your bodies. He quotes Mossiah

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4:29 for there are diverse ways
and means even so many that I

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cannot number them. But then he
says, You know what is right and

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what is wrong. And you have the
individual responsibility to

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learn for yourself by study and
also by faith, the things that

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you should and should not do,
and the doctrinal reasons that

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you should or should not do
those things.

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And then he says, I testify that
as you desire to So learn, as

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you watch yourselves and your
thoughts and your words and your

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deeds, and observe the
commandments of God, and

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continue in the faith of what
you have heard concerning the

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coming of our Lord, even into
the end of your lives, that

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comes from Hosea chapter four as
well, you will be spiritually

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enlightened and protected. So as
we continue to start learning

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more about the ways that Satan
can attack us and get us to

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misuse our bodies, we will be
spiritually enlightened and

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protected. And he says, and
according to your faithfulness

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and diligence, you will have the
power to discern the deception

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and repel the attacks of the
adversary, as he tempts you to

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misuse your physical body when
he threw the word discern in

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there, remember that?

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President Nelson used that in
that talk that we've kind of in

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basing all of this stuff on
right a plea to my sisters, he

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talks about how the church needs
women with the power of

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discernment, to be able to
discern the popular trend that

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discern what is good and what is
bad within the popular trends

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within the world.

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So an elder Bednar is promising
us that we will have the power

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to discern the deception and
repel the attacks. If we

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continue to do those, all of
those things, right. As we

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learn, we watch ourselves our
thoughts, words, deeds, and as

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we follow the commandments of
God and continue in the faith.

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Okay. He says to those of us who
know and understand the plan of

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salvation, any defiling of the
body is rebellion and a denial

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of our true identity as sons and
daughters of God. So treat your

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body like a temple. And he talks
about that a little bit in there

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to treat your body like a
temple.

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Would you draw on the walls of
the temple?

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Would you? How do we say this?
Would you put Windows on the

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outside for everybody to see
everything that's going on in

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there?

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Okay, the second one, I'm just
gonna eat you on that first. So

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the first one was, he's trying
to get us to misuse our bodies.

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The second one is to minimize
the importance of our physical

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bodies. And this one gets
interesting and he talks about

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this one being more subtle, and
way more diabolical. misusing

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our bodies is a little bit more
obvious, right? Like, you're not

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going to go out and violate the
law of chastity. You're not like

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those are actual things to do
using drugs, disfiguring are

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defacing our bodies. Those are
more obvious things.

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The minimizing the importance of
our bodies is more subtle. And

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he gives three examples. Again,
he cannot give all of the

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examples, you're going to have
to pray and listen to the spirit

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and figure it out for yourself.
But he does give three good

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ones. The first one he he's he
uses or mentions is going to

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unusual and dangerous extremes
searching for an ever greater

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and more exhilarating adrenaline
rush.

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The second one he talks about
excessive video gaming and

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online socializing, and what
that can cause and he lists

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three different things. And
we'll we'll go into more detail

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on all on all three of these
here in just a second. But the

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three different bullet points
underneath the excessive video

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gaming and online socializing.

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They cause us to neglect or
sacrifice eternal relationships

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for digital distractions,
diversion and detours that have

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no lasting value. Think about
your endless scrolling. Is there

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any lasting value in that? Are
you really looking at pictures

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of your family or pictures of
your kids? Or are you looking at

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influencer content?

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We waste countless hours he
quotes D&C 60:13 idling away our

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time. And then it can cause us
to postpone or forfeit

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vocational or academic
achievement. We'd rather be

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sitting in front of a computer
playing a game or endlessly

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scrolling through social media
instead of studying for our test

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or taking a final or re
Enrolling or enrolling in the

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first place. And then the third
one is anonymity. And I thought

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that one was interesting. I'm
kind of glad that he mentioned

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that because when you think
about your online experience,

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there's a certain level of
anonymity especially with people

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that you don't know.

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Okay, so let's go to he doesn't
spend In a lot of time on the

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first one going to unusual and
dangerous extreme searching for

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an ever greater and more
exhilarating adrenaline rush.

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He, I'm just going to sum it up
with this one quote from that

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section, he says putting at
risk, the very instrument God

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has given us to receive the
learning experiences of

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mortality, merely to pursue a
thrill or some suppose it fun to

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bolster ego or to gain
acceptance truly minimizes the

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importance of our physical
bodies. It we push it to the

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extreme for what is it because
we don't think that it's

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important.

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And he, like he mentioned,
exercise is a good thing, and

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everybody should exercise and we
should eat right, there's a word

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of wisdom for that, right? Like,
we should use our bodies

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appropriately, and we should use
them for what God has intended

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for us to use them for. That
doesn't necessarily mean going

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to the extreme.

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Okay, the second one is the one
he spends a lot of time on. And

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in 2010, it makes, it makes
sense, the excessive video

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gaming and online socializing,
and he shares like two or three

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different stories in that
article of things like one of

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them, he found in the Wall
Street Journal, one of them was

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another that he had heard about,
of these people. For fitting

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real relationships for virtual
ones, go look them up, I'm not

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going to share them here.

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He says that technology can be
used to replicate or augment

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reality and create a virtual
one. And he gives positive

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examples to like a surgeon or a
pilot using simulation software

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to gain experience and become
better at their profession. And

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he also talks about architects
and engineers being able to use

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technology to create better
models of the buildings that

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they're designing, so that they
can help prevent damage or

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collapse in case of an
earthquake or other natural

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disasters.

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Then he says this, and I was
gonna try and summarize or

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paraphrase, and I just I can't,
because he uses the word

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fidelity. And I want to make
sure that this that the

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definition of this comes across,
he says in each of these

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examples, talking about the
surgeon, the pilot, the

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architects and the engineers, in
each of these examples, a high

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degree of fidelity in the
simulation or model contributes

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to the effectiveness of the
experience. The term fidelity

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denotes the similarity between
similarity between reality and a

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representation of reality, such
as simulation can be

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constructive, if the fidelity is
high, and the purposes are good.

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So there's your two, there's our
two measuring sticks, high

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fidelity, meaning that the
similarity between the augmented

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reality and actual reality is
similar. That's high fidelity,

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that's measuring stick number
one, measuring stick number two,

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the purposes are good. For
example, providing experience

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that saves lives or improves the
quality of life.

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And then he shows to two
pictures of a sealing room in

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the Newport Beach, California
temple.

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But the two images are very,
very similar. When you look at

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them, it's kind of like, it's
like one of those puzzles,

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right, where you got to find the
differences between the

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pictures, there are definitely
differences, like the chandelier

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is different. But the two
pictures that he's showing, one

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is the computer generated
version of what that sealing

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room was going to look like. And
the other was the actual

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photograph of what that sealing
room did look like when it was

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done. Very, very similar. And he
says in in this example, high

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fidelity is employed to
accomplish the most important

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purpose, the design and
construction of a sacred and

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beautiful temple.

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So we have our augmented
reality, virtual reality, we

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have actual reality, very
similar and good purpose.

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There's our two measuring
sticks. Very similar, good

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purpose. However, a simulation
or model can lead to spiritual

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impairment and danger if the
fidelity fidelity is high, but

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the purposes are bad.

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So it's very similar to real
life. But the purpose is not

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good. That's where things get
dangerous. And then he gives an

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apostolic voice of warning. And
it always kind of, like raises

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the hairs on my neck when I when
I hear that he says I raise an

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apostolic voice of warning about
the potentially stifling,

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suffocating suppressing and

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constraining impact of some
kinds of cyberspace interactions

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and experiences upon our souls.
The concerns I raise are not

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new. They apply equally to other
types of media such as

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television, movies, and music.
But in a cyber world, these

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challenges are more pervasive
and intense. I plead with you to

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be aware of the sense doling and
spiritually destructive

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influence of cyberspace
technologies that are used to

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produce high fidelity and
promote degrading and evil

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purposes, high fidelity, bad
purpose.

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So that was bullet point number
two. So we've talked about going

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to unusual and dangerous
extremes with our bodies, and

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how that minimizes our body's
importance. We've talked about

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excessive video gaming and
online socializing. And the

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third one was anonymity. And he
doesn't spend a lot of time went

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on that one either. But he does
caution us to remember a couple

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of things. So, first, so
anonymity. Everybody knows what

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anonymity is, right? It's your
ability to remain anonymous.

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Remember, that apostasy. This is
him, quote. Remember, that

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apostasy is not anonymous,
simply because it occurs in a

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blog, or through a fabricated
identity in a chat room or

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virtual world. immoral thoughts,
words and deeds always are

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immoral, even in cyberspace.
Just because you typed it to a

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fake person doesn't make it
okay.

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Then he says, The Lord knows who
we really, really are. This is

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the other remember this. The
Lord knows who we really are,

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what we really think, what we
really do, and who we really are

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becoming, he has warned us that
the rebellious shall be pierced

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with much sorrow, for their
iniquities shall be spoken upon

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the housetops. And their secret
acts shall be revealed.

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So you might think that you're
anonymously hurting somebody's

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feelings, nothing is anonymous,
before Heavenly Father, and it

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will all come back to you.

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Okay, I also want to make sure
that I share this quote, because

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neither he technology in and of
itself is not a bad thing. I

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hope that people are getting
something good. From this rate,

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technology is not necessarily a
bad thing. This is what he says

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neither technology nor rapid
change in or of itself is good

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or evil. The real challenge is
to understand both within the

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context of the eternal plan of
happiness.

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So technology, and rapid change,
these are not bad things. We've

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seen a lot of change in the
church lately, a lot of change,

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not to the doctrine, mind you to
policies and procedures, we've

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seen a lot of change. Neither
technology nor rapid change is a

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bad thing. A good bad, a good or
bad thing. The real challenge is

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to understand both within the
context of the plan of

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happiness, how will change
impact the plan of happiness for

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you as an individual? Because
that's who we're entitled to

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receive revelation for right
ourselves individually? How is

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your technology? Or how is your
how is the rapid change within

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your life affecting the planet
happiness for you? He says

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Lucifer will encourage you to
misuse and to minimize the

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importance of your physical
body. He will attempt to

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substitute the monotony of
virtual repetition for the

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infinite variety of God's
creations and convince us that

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we are merely mortal things to
be acted upon, instead of

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eternal souls blessed with moral
agency to act for ourselves.

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When you're sitting there in a
chat room, or are there chat

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rooms anymore? I might be dating
myself when you're playing a

00:24:06.500 --> 00:24:08.420
game online, are you?

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That is not necessarily a bad
thing, either. But how is it

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affecting how is it affecting
you? And he actually gives two

00:24:17.210 --> 00:24:20.090
questions to look at in this
talk. I'm going to scroll to

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these I wasn't planning on
sharing this. But he gives two

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questions for how we can
determine.

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Alright, where did they go?
They're there.

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I invite you. He says, For your
happiness, and protection. I

00:24:36.920 --> 00:24:39.200
invite you to study more
diligently the doctrine of the

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plan of salvation and to
prayerfully ponder the truths we

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have reviewed. I offer two
questions for consideration in

00:24:45.680 --> 00:24:48.620
your personal pondering and
prayerful study. So when you're

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doing your online stuff, when
you're thinking about minimizing

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the minimization of of your, of
the importance of your physical

00:25:02.150 --> 00:25:05.090
body. Think about these two
questions, does the use of

00:25:05.090 --> 00:25:09.380
various technologies and media
invite or impede the constant

00:25:09.380 --> 00:25:13.070
companionship of the Holy Ghost
in my life? And number two does

00:25:13.070 --> 00:25:17.720
the time that I spend using
various technologies and media

00:25:17.960 --> 00:25:22.940
in large or restrict my capacity
to live to love and to serve in

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meaningful ways.

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I remember social media
challenges or social media. When

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was it President Nelson,
President Monson? Elder Hall, I

00:25:35.030 --> 00:25:37.910
don't remember. I feel like it's
happened a few different times

00:25:38.180 --> 00:25:43.760
when we've been challenged to go
on like a social media fast. And

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I remember thinking at the time
like, but it doesn't affect me

00:25:47.480 --> 00:25:52.070
like that. And so I started to
pay attention to how it did

00:25:52.070 --> 00:25:52.700
affect me.

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And I started, instead of
fasting, I started cleaning up

00:25:58.400 --> 00:26:02.120
my account, I stopped following
people who were consistently

00:26:02.120 --> 00:26:08.450
negative. I stopped following
people whose posts made me not

00:26:08.450 --> 00:26:13.460
feel great inside. And it wasn't
it wasn't, I wasn't following. I

00:26:13.460 --> 00:26:16.520
wasn't unfollowing people who
were just having a hard time. To

00:26:16.520 --> 00:26:19.040
be clear. I was unfollowing
people who were being

00:26:19.040 --> 00:26:25.640
consistently destructive. Not
towards me directly, but just in

00:26:25.640 --> 00:26:31.520
general. And I started following
people who were more positive. I

00:26:31.520 --> 00:26:35.990
started following the apostles
as they started to get their

00:26:35.990 --> 00:26:38.900
accounts. This is a long time
ago, as they started to get

00:26:38.900 --> 00:26:42.050
their own social media accounts,
I started following them. I

00:26:42.050 --> 00:26:46.010
started following uplifting
accounts, that so that when I

00:26:46.010 --> 00:26:50.540
logged in, and when I scrolled,
as I do, I'm not perfect at this

00:26:50.540 --> 00:26:54.170
either, right? As I, as I
scrolled, I would find uplifting

00:26:54.170 --> 00:26:56.720
content, something that would
make me feel better about

00:26:56.720 --> 00:27:01.580
myself, or give me some
motivation to better myself and

00:27:01.580 --> 00:27:06.530
started getting rid of all of
that other just clutter and

00:27:06.530 --> 00:27:07.220
noise.

00:27:08.990 --> 00:27:13.940
Okay, so then he talks about the
responsibility. So we've talked

00:27:13.940 --> 00:27:18.890
about the three things at the
very beginning, right, we're

00:27:18.890 --> 00:27:22.400
going to talk about the pieces
of the plan of happiness, which

00:27:22.400 --> 00:27:25.190
we did. We're talking about,
specifically, our bodies this

00:27:25.190 --> 00:27:28.490
time around, we're talking about
how the adversary attacks our

00:27:28.490 --> 00:27:31.790
bodies in two different ways.
And now, we're going to just

00:27:31.790 --> 00:27:34.790
quickly look at the section
where he talks about the

00:27:34.790 --> 00:27:38.810
responsibilities of the rising
generation. And this was in

00:27:38.810 --> 00:27:46.310
2010. And 2010, I was a oh my
goodness, 14 years ago, early

00:27:46.340 --> 00:27:48.620
30s. I was in my early 30s.

00:27:51.770 --> 00:27:56.720
I'm, I don't, I'm older now. And
I still feel like I'm part of

00:27:56.720 --> 00:27:59.030
the rising generation. And maybe
it's just because I've heard it

00:27:59.060 --> 00:28:02.330
my entire life that you are the
rising generation, whatever your

00:28:02.330 --> 00:28:07.130
the. So maybe this applied to
me, maybe it doesn't. But I I

00:28:07.130 --> 00:28:11.060
still like to think it does. So
he talks about or he reiterates

00:28:11.420 --> 00:28:15.290
that we have been saved
specifically for this day. And

00:28:15.290 --> 00:28:17.600
he shares that information to
give us the courage that we need

00:28:17.600 --> 00:28:20.840
to face these challenges these
two attacks on our bodies.

00:28:23.130 --> 00:28:26.280
But the one responsibility that
he consistently mentions is that

00:28:26.280 --> 00:28:29.760
of obedience. Have you ever
thought of obedience as a

00:28:29.760 --> 00:28:35.490
responsibility? It is your
responsibility to be obedient to

00:28:35.550 --> 00:28:37.050
our Heavenly Father's
commandments.

00:28:38.760 --> 00:28:42.390
I mean, it doesn't sound wrong.
So chew on that for a bit while

00:28:42.390 --> 00:28:45.960
I share this quote. He says
obedience opens the door to the

00:28:45.960 --> 00:28:49.290
constant companionship of the
Holy Ghost. And the spiritual

00:28:49.290 --> 00:28:53.190
gifts and abilities activated by
the power of the Holy Ghost,

00:28:53.430 --> 00:28:57.030
enable us to avoid deception,
and to see to feel to know to

00:28:57.030 --> 00:29:01.440
understand and to remember
things as they really are. You

00:29:01.440 --> 00:29:04.410
and I have been endowed with a
greater capacity for obedience

00:29:04.410 --> 00:29:09.930
precisely for these reasons. So
we have been endowed with a

00:29:09.930 --> 00:29:14.070
greater capacity for obedience,
so that we can feel the

00:29:14.070 --> 00:29:17.070
influence of the Holy Ghost and
we can see feel no understand

00:29:17.070 --> 00:29:19.980
and remember things as they
really are.

00:29:22.500 --> 00:29:26.826
Alright, so I'm just gonna give
a few more gifts from elder

00:29:26.900 --> 00:29:31.007
Bednar as I closed this very
long episode. Thank you for

00:29:31.080 --> 00:29:35.554
sticking through this with me.
Once again, these are meant to

00:29:35.627 --> 00:29:40.027
inspire and provide us with the
courage that we need to face

00:29:40.100 --> 00:29:44.354
what's coming. He says, and
these are, I pulled these from

00:29:44.427 --> 00:29:48.828
different spots in this article.
But he gives lots of, to me

00:29:48.901 --> 00:29:52.715
motive motivating and
encouraging words. He says, As

00:29:52.788 --> 00:29:57.188
we heed this inspired counsel.
We can and will be blessed to

00:29:57.261 --> 00:30:01.808
recognize and repel the attacks
of the adversary today, and in

00:30:01.882 --> 00:30:05.915
the days that lie ahead, we can
and will fulfill our 14

00:30:05.989 --> 00:30:10.609
responsibilities and contribute
to the work of the Lord and all

00:30:10.682 --> 00:30:14.862
the world. We can do it. We were
blessed with the gift of

00:30:14.936 --> 00:30:18.896
obedience so that we can be
obedient and see all these

00:30:18.969 --> 00:30:22.050
different things discern right
from wrong.

00:30:23.190 --> 00:30:26.760
He says you will receive
answers. Specifically, he's

00:30:26.760 --> 00:30:29.100
talking about those two
questions. As you're asking

00:30:29.100 --> 00:30:33.450
yourself those two questions. He
says, you will receive answers

00:30:33.450 --> 00:30:37.290
inspiration and instruction from
the Holy Ghost suited to your

00:30:37.290 --> 00:30:42.210
individual circumstances and
needs. I repeat and affirm the

00:30:42.210 --> 00:30:46.290
teaching of the Prophet Joseph,
in quotes Joseph Smith, all

00:30:46.290 --> 00:30:50.610
beings who have bodies have
power over those who have not,

00:30:51.270 --> 00:30:55.650
the devil has no power over us
only as we permit him.

00:30:57.060 --> 00:31:00.454
Joseph Smith taught that a long,
long time ago, and it still

00:31:00.511 --> 00:31:03.510
holds true. The devil only has
the power we give him.

00:31:04.680 --> 00:31:09.060
These eternal truths. last quote
from elder Bednar, for today,

00:31:09.130 --> 00:31:13.158
these eternal truths about the
importance of our physical

00:31:13.228 --> 00:31:17.750
bodies will fortify you against
the deception and the attacks of

00:31:17.820 --> 00:31:18.810
the adversary.

00:31:23.370 --> 00:31:27.488
It's a bit intense elder Bednarz
and that intense, but he's

00:31:27.558 --> 00:31:31.676
right. We have been given a
greater capacity for obedience,

00:31:31.746 --> 00:31:36.143
we just have to exercise it, we
just have to decide that that's

00:31:36.213 --> 00:31:40.611
what we're going to do. Argument
is a strong word, I got into a

00:31:40.681 --> 00:31:44.590
philosophical discussion with
someone one time about the

00:31:44.659 --> 00:31:48.987
scripture that says Choose you
this day whom you will serve as

00:31:49.057 --> 00:31:52.966
for me and my house, I will
serve the Lord. I've doesn't

00:31:53.036 --> 00:31:57.433
everybody have like a plate or a
cross stitch or something with

00:31:57.503 --> 00:31:58.830
that on their wall?

00:32:01.770 --> 00:32:05.888
The I was, I was coming at it
from the perspective of choose

00:32:05.957 --> 00:32:10.213
today to follow Jesus Christ.
Choose today. And then just make

00:32:10.282 --> 00:32:14.332
it I already decided, make it
one of those things, right? I

00:32:14.400 --> 00:32:18.382
already decided that's what I'm
going to do. Why is this a

00:32:18.450 --> 00:32:22.638
question that's coming up in my
brain. But this friend that I

00:32:22.707 --> 00:32:27.031
was having this discussion with,
was like, No, that's something

00:32:27.100 --> 00:32:31.493
that you're supposed to do every
day. You're supposed to wake up

00:32:31.562 --> 00:32:35.818
every day. Choose today to serve
the Lord, choose you this day

00:32:35.887 --> 00:32:37.260
whom you will serve.

00:32:38.310 --> 00:32:41.220
Choose today to serve the Lord
and make that choice every day.

00:32:42.960 --> 00:32:46.440
The longer the more this was
years ago, this conversation and

00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:51.540
is still in my brain. Because I
think both are true. Choose

00:32:51.540 --> 00:32:56.100
today to serve Jesus Christ.
Choose today to serve the Lord

00:32:56.880 --> 00:33:01.050
and live as though you've
already made that choice. But

00:33:01.050 --> 00:33:04.950
then every morning, remind
yourself and on the days that

00:33:04.950 --> 00:33:08.340
are harder, the times when we're
going through way more difficult

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things that might have to be a
daily choice, to choose that day

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to serve the Lord. Because it
might not be what you want to do

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that day.

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Make your choice. Have the
choice be made. And then follow

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the counsel of elder Bednar. Be
obedient and just watch the

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blessings come in. And I'm
looking forward to the gift of

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discernment. It's something I've
always wanted. And I just want

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to go try and figure out how to
get it because I want to be able

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to tell the difference between
what is good and what is not.

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And be able to follow the good
trends and be able to push the

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bad trends aside, right. Use our
measuring sticks. What is

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reality? Is it good? How close
to reality is this? Is it good?

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Anyway, I hope you got something
from this today. I know that I

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did. I really appreciate you
sticking around. I know it's a

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long one. Thank you so much for
your time and enjoy the rest of

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your week.

