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Paisley: Hi everybody, Paisley
imperfect here again, with

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another message this one word.
This time we're going to talk

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about elder oaks talk from the
October 2016 general conference

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called sharing the restored
gospel. This, I decided, or I

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mean, I got a little bit ahead
of my plan for this week, I also

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really love the story of King
Lamoni's conversion, it's one of

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my favorites. And so I got ahead
of my plan and decided that I

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would listen to some of the some
of the conference talks that

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were also linked in, come follow
me. And this one really stuck

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out to me and I loved it,
because elder oaks, then elder

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oaks gives us some really
practical advice. And some

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things that we can do to share
the gospel, whether we have

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before or not.

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He starts with three things, or
he gives us three things to

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start with, rather, the first
thing, if you don't want to,

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then you should probably pray
for the desire to share the

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gospel. So that was actually
step number one, pray for the

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desire to help in this vital
part of the work of salvation. I

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have also heard it said that if
you don't have if you don't want

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the desire, then pray for the
desire to have the desire, pray

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for the want to have the want.
And I mean, frankly, I've had to

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start there before

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Sharing the gospel is it's, it's
kind of it's strange for me,

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because it's so much a part of
who I am. But it seems like it

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should be easy. But for some
reason, I always, I feel like I

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always struggle. As I went
through this, though, maybe I

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don't as much as I thought.
Let's see if we can get you

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there too.

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So step number one was to pray
for the desire to help in this

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vital part of the work of
salvation. So pray for the

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desire to share the gospel,

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then the second one was to keep
the commandments ourselves. And

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he talks about how us keeping
the commandments, that's what is

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going to draw people to us.

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And then number three is pray
again, more specifically pray

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for inspiration on what we can
do in our individual

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circumstances to share the
gospel with others, he starts

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off his talk. So a little bit
before he gives these three

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things to get us started. He
starts off his talk by saying

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that there are hundreds of ways
for individuals to share the

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gospel in within their own
circumstances, and everybody's

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circumstance is different. So
put yourself in his shoes for

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just a second and think about if
you were one of the 12. And you

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wanted to give some practical
advice on how a worldwide

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organization, how 16 million
people, 17 18 million people,

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whatever we're up to now can
share the gospel. You want to

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give some practical advice to 18
million very unique different

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people on how to share the
gospel of Jesus Christ, what

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would you say?

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Which I think we'll get to here
in a second. I would love to

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come back to that point. The
second thing so that was number

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one. Remember that people will
learn when they're ready to

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learn not when we are ready to
teach them.

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Number two, remember that an
invitation to learn more about

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Jesus Christ and His gospel is
preferable to An invitation to

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learn more about our church. I
had not, for some reason, put

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those words together the way
that he just did. We're just did

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in 2016. Remember that an
invitation to learn more about

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Jesus Christ. So our invitation
is to bring people to Jesus

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Christ, not to bring them to the
church. The church will help

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them get to Jesus Christ. But
that's the invitation is to

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learn more about him. Please
come with me to church on Sunday

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to learn more about Jesus
Christ. Rather than please come

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to church with me to learn more
about the church. And when you

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think about it on Sundays are
lessons they're not about the

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church. They are about the
gospel of Jesus Christ. So the

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invitation is to come and learn
more about him. I just, I

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thought that was really
interesting and kind of a duh.

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moment for me.

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Number three, I'm just gonna
read directly I I've was trying

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to paraphrase these. But number
three, I, I can't say it the way

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that he does. He says, quote,
when we seek to introduce people

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to the restored gospel, we
should do so in ways that are

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authentic and unloving concern
for the individual. This happens

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when we are trying to help
others with problems they have,

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they have identified, or when we
are working with them in

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community service activities,
such as relieving suffering,

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caring for the poor, and needy,
or enhancing the quality of life

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of others.

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So be authentic about it, it
does not need to be forced, nor

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should it be forced, it should
be authentic, in the moment,

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follow the spirit.

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Number four, don't limit our
efforts to our own circles of

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friends and acquaintances, we
should be opening our mouths to

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anyone and everyone that the
Spirit tells us to open our

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mouths to the example that he
gives, in this part of his talk

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is about a taxi driver in real
during the Olympics, this tax

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taxi driver had the Book of
Mormon in six or seven

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languages, I'm sorry, I don't
remember the exact number. But

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he had a copy of the Book of
Mormon and like six or seven

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different languages, and he was
using his taxi and the

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opportunity that he had to talk
to hundreds of people that he

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was driving around all day, he
used that as an opportunity to

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share the gospel. How incredible
is that? Why can't I do that?

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Well, I need to pray for the
desire.

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Number five, we could plan a
special sacrament meeting. This

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one I thought was really cool.
And my bishop doesn't know it

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yet, because they have young
men's camp this week. My Bishop

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doesn't know it yet. But I may
share the idea with him. But

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think about this for just a
second. And he goes he gives.

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Maybe I should just read what he
says. It's number five, he says

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Ward bishoprics can plan a
special sacrament meeting to to

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which members are urged to bring
interested persons. So what if

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we had a sacrament meeting?
Let's see we are in July right

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now. And so schools going to
start in August. And then we

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start getting into like piano or
piano primary the primary

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program like fourth quarter, but
we've got like these great

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Sundays in September and October
when most people are in town.

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They haven't started their
holiday travel yet. We don't

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have spring break to compete
with none of that. So we've got

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these great Sundays in
September, October. What if we

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had a sacrament meeting a
specific day that was set aside

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to just talk about? Maybe it's
the plan of salvation, how

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families can be together can be
together forever? How our

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Heavenly Father has a plan for
us where we came from, where

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we're going, like, what if we
had a sacrament meeting that had

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short talks, and each one of
these people talked about

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different parts of the plan of
salvation?

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And a couple of months in
advance, we started announcing,

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hey, on this Sunday in September
or October, or I don't know,

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maybe we push it until April or
May I don't know. I'm not the

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bishop and my bishop might say
no, and that's totally fine. But

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like, think about that for a
second Ward bishoprics can plan

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a special sacrament meeting to
which members are urged to bring

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interested person so on this
particular Sunday in October

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we're going to do this sacrament
meeting that is going to be

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specifically for people who have
people who don't know that much

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about the plan of salvation.

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Interested friends, right. Okay.
He says word members will be

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less hesitant to bring their
acquaintance, acquaintances to

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such a meeting because they will
be more assured that the content

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of the meeting will be well
planned to enlist interest and

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represent the church. Well. It
is a sacrament meeting

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specifically set aside for us to
bring our friends to. I don't

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know why that thought had never
crossed my mind before. But I

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thought that was super cool. And
I mean, frankly, we may have

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already done this. I keep
thinking like October 2016.

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That's the month I was nine
months pregnant with my first

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kid. And everything is a little
bit of a blur. I don't remember

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this talk. Does anybody remember
every single? Well, I guess some

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people do they have those kinds
of memories. Anyway, I don't

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remember any of this. So this
was a very cool idea for me for

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the first time.

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Okay, number six, let's keep
going. Stay in touch with people

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of all backgrounds, not just
your church friends. So when

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somebody moves away, and you've
become friends with them, stay

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in touch with them. I am
horrible at staying in touch

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with people. Once they move or
once I move I am just I am I

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have been horrible at keeping in
touch with people. I am trying

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to change that. I've had a lot
of friends move recently. I live

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in Southern California and it is
very expensive. And people are

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moving to Idaho, Texas, Utah,
Virginia, you name it. They're

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going all over the place North
Carolina. And so I am I have I'm

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trying so much harder to stay in
touch with my people who are

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leaving. But not just church
friends, make friends with other

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people. Who are you? How are you
going to share the gospel with

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your church friends? That's what
ministering is for, right?

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That's what the ministering
program is for not ministering

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itself. Should you be careful
with that?

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Number seven, this one is
specific to the youth. He kept

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this one pretty specific to them
by the use of social media

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channels. Use them use your
social media channels to uplift

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others and to share the gospel
of Jesus Christ. It doesn't need

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to be a hey, look at me, look
how awesome I am. I'm keeping

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the commandments. Share an
uplifting message.

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I mean, I create quote things
for you, you could share him if

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you want to do on Instagram or
on Facebook. You could share the

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little quote thing, put it in
your story, put it on your

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Facebook page, I don't care.
Whatever we can do to help

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uplift people, make them feel
better about themselves, and

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help them become closer to their
savior, Jesus Christ. Whatever

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we can do. Let's just do it.

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That's a hard one for me. Plan a
special sacrament meeting,

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perhaps stay in touch with
people of all backgrounds, your

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friends who are moving who you
became close with, but aren't

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members of the Church. Social
media has to be good for

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something right. And then use
that social media. You can use

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it to stay in touch, and you can
use it to help uplift others and

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bring them to their Savior.

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So now we have seven plus three,
we have 10 things that we can do

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to get started seven ideas,
three ways for us to get the

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ball rolling. And then he gives
us resources. He's like, Okay,

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so here's what you need to do.
And here are the resources that

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you have.

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He gave us six resources, number
one television How many of you

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are going to use television to
share the gospel and this is not

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I do not mean this as a slight
to elder oaks. I do not mean

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this as a slight to elder oaks.
Because I also know that he is

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talking about the church in
general as well. Right. And the

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church in general. They are
spending more on a heavier media

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presence on television, which is
fantastic, in my opinion. How

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many of us are going to use TV,
YouTube TV? It's becoming more

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accessible to people like you
and me. Number two is the

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internet. Again, number two and
number three, the internet and

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social media. Write your blog
posts.

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Write your write your article,
write your testimony, send it to

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the Leona, you can do that. And
then you take a copy and you're

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like, hey, look, I got
published. And you show your

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friends this article that you
wrote that got published in a

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magazine that has worldwide
distribution. How cool is that?

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Number four, increased number of
missionaries. This is a resource

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to us, we have an increased
number of missionaries, we just

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got a set of sister missionaries
in our ward, we've had elders

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for a while. Now we have elders
and sisters, we have an

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increased number of missionaries
out there. Let's use them. We

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have valuable messages to share.
The church is constantly putting

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out valuable messaging,
constantly putting it out almost

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every day, I think it might
actually be every day, they

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update their homepage with a new
message.

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I'm going I'm looking right now
just to double check. There's

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been one at the top for a while.
The one at the top says, oh,

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it's got president and right now
it has President Nelson's 100th

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birthday invitation reached out
to the one, how long has that

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been going on. And there's a ton
of great content out there

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people that are sharing their
stories, the 99 Plus One you may

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have seen like it's got the
little 99 plus one in the bottom

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corner. People are sharing their
stories all over the place about

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the about being the one that
somebody came to find, or a time

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when they helped the one. There
are there's tons there are so

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many resources on the church's
website, opportunities for us to

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just hit, share, and send it to
somebody. And then number six is

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interesting, a prominence we've
never had before. Meaning that

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more people have actually heard
of The Church of Jesus Christ of

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Latter Day Saints now than ever
before.

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If you grew up in the 80s, and
90s, like I did every single

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time, I said what church I was a
member of who what? I've never

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heard of it before, what would
what does that mean? And then

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we'd go through either the
articles of faith or you know,

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whatever. Now, more and more
people have heard of the church.

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Because we do campaigns like
like the world around Christmas,

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or the I can't remember what the
Easter one is called now. We've

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got ads in Times Square, we have
things on television, it's all

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over the internet, there are
more people like us who are

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sharing our testimony and
sharing our own stories out

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there there are we have a
prominence now that we've never

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had before. And we can use that
as a resource. I had never

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thought about that. How can you
use these resources?

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Okay, so also, I know that there
are a lot of people out there

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who are really good at sharing
the gospel. They are really good

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at bringing people in. I know
some of these people and they

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like, it's like they have
somebody new every month. And

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they're always bringing friends
with them to church and these

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friends get baptized. And like
it's, I always just sit there

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and think, how do they do that?
I do not consider myself one of

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those people. I've always felt
like, I've always felt like one

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of the 99. Right, one of the 99.
Who is there trying to hold the

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other 98 together while somebody
else goes after the one. I've

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never felt like the person to go
after the one. That's somebody

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else's good at that. They're
going to do that. And I'm going

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to hold the note I'm going to
I'm going to help hold the 98

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together. Well, that person's
after the one. I actually my

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calling right now is in young
women's and the other person,

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the other leader with my class.
She is one of those people

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that's really good at talking
about she's a convert. We're all

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converts in her own right. She's
a more recent convert than I am.

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She is really good at talking to
people and just sharing the

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gospel of Jesus Christ. And so
we were kind of joking one time

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she's and she's like, well, I'll
bring him you keep them. I'm

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really good at bringing him in.
You go ahead and keep them here.

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And it just we kind of laughed
about it. But that's that's kind

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of how I've always felt like it.
Somebody else is really good at

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getting them here. Once they get
them here. I can help keep them

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here.

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But I cannot figure out how to
go get them and bring them. I am

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trying to do better. And now
with a renewed sense of energy

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from elder oaks and those three
steps, pray, keep the

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commandments, pray some more. I
can I feel like I can start

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again to try and find and help
bring people to their Savior.

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So I'm sure that there are other
people that feel like that too.

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But here, there's also something
else that I frequently forget.

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Simply being friends with
somebody who is not a member of

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the church is doing missionary
work. If you are being an

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authentic friend, if you are
being yourself.

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There is a bit of a caveat.
Like, we don't get to just say,

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I have friends who aren't
members of the Church of Jesus

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Christ of Latter Day Saints. So
all right, cool. missionary work

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check. That's It's not like
that. You have to be that friend

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that lifts them up and helps
them out. You have to be the

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friend who keeps the
commandments, no matter what the

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circumstances are, who keeps
their temple covenants, no

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matter what the circumstances
are, even an especially when

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they seem inconvenient.

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So for just a second, I want to
look at the baptismal covenants

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that we make the ones that are
listed in Mosiah 18. So in verse

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eight, one of the, the covenant
in verse eight, excuse me, we're

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willing to bear one another's
burdens that they may be liked.

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Notice that it doesn't say that
we are willing to bear the

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burdens of our church friends,
that may be late. It's

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everybody.

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Verse nine, we're willing to
mourn with those that mourn,

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comfort those that stand in need
of comfort. And it's not just

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mourning with those of our
faith. It's not just comforting

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the sisters in our ward. It's
everyone.

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Also, in verse nine, stand as a
witness of God at all times, and

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in all things and in all places,
all things all times, all

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places, not just bearing your
testimony at church. There's

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nothing wrong with bury your
testimony at church, there is

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nothing inherently wrong with
doing any of these things just

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at church. There's nothing wrong
with that. If we want to use

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these as opportunities to help
bring others to our Savior, we

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need to step outside and bring
other people in verse 10, serve

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the Lord and keep His
commandments. It's not just that

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it doesn't just say do your
calling. And that's it. It says

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serve the Lord and keep His
commandments. So serve the Lord.

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King Benjamin said, when you're
in the service of your fellow

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beings, you're only in the
service of your God, fellow

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beings, not ward members. When
we are serving anyone around us,

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we are serving our Lord, we are
serving our Heavenly Father. And

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as we keep his commandments,
even in the inconvenient,

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difficult situations, we are
drawing people closer to our

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Savior.

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Verse 21, have our hearts knit
together in unity and love.

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doesn't say anything about just
a church.

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And verse 27, importing of our
substance, doesn't just say at

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church, sharing with those who
need and giving what we can to

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help to help others.

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Now again, so when I yeah, when
I say it that way, like when we

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when we think about it, mourn
with those that mourn, but not

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just those in our ward, like our
neighbors and stuff. It seems

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ridiculous, right? But I think
sometimes, myself included,

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that's where we get caught up in
these things. Like we have this

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calling and we're, we're gonna
go, we're going to do our

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calling. And we're going to
mourn with our friends. And it's

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our service projects and our our
friendships, they're more,

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they're easier at church,
because it's often the thing,

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because we share that we share
that faith with those who are in

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our ward or at church, right?
And that faith is often what

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makes us feel the most
vulnerable.

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And when we're around others who
share it, we feel a little less

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judged and a little less weird.
A little less different. We feel

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like we feel done somewhere. But
remember, you know, maybe that's

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just me. But I, I do feel more
comfortable, more comfortable

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around people who have the same
faith that I do. Just simply

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because it is such a, it's such
a huge part of who I am. And I

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don't have to worry about
whether I'm going to say the

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wrong thing, or if I'm going to
come off a little weird or I

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don't have to worry about that.
But again, but remember,

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presidents Kimball and Nelson
told us that it will be through

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the relationships that we build
with others, that the real

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growth will happen in the
church. So those relationships

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that we are building with people
who are outside of our faith,

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those are the that's what's
really going to draw more and

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more people to our Savior.
That's what brings in the one.

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So I'm going to close this
episode with a quote from elder

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oaks. He quotes elder Bednar or
Ballard sorry, he quotes elder

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Ballard in this so I'm kind of
cheating two quotes elder oaks

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and elder Ballard. But elder
oaks says sharing the gospel is

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not a burden, but a joy. What we
call member missionary work is

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not a program, but an attitude
of love and outreach to help

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those around us now think about
ministering for a second sorry,

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tangent moment. Think about
ministering for a seconds, the

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visiting teaching or home
teaching program was changed to

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ministering for a very inspired
reason. It's an attitude of love

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and outreach to help those
around us. We're not going over

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to share a message. Maybe we
will when we get there. But it's

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not. It's not an assigned
message. It's whatever message

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that person needs. And the same
thing. He's talking about member

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missionary work as though it's
ministering member missionary

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work is not a program, but an
attitude of love and outreach to

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help those around us. It is also
an opportunity to witness how we

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feel about the restored gospel
of our Savior. That is

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ministering to other people.

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Then he quotes elder Ballard a
most significant evidence of our

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conversion and of how we feel
about the gospel in our own

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lives, is our willingness to
share it with others. It's time

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for me to pray, keep the
commandments and pray some more.

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Remember to keep it natural and
authentic. And maybe a little

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weird. I don't know. I probably
will keep it weird, because

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that's how I roll. I hope that
we can all I know. I know we all

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have different experiences with
missionary work. And I hope that

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we can all just try. That's all
just try to step outside of our

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comfort zone a little bit and
help somebody else. Either start

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a relationship, maybe we just
introduce them and just

00:28:18.450 --> 00:28:22.080
introduce them to their Savior
and His love for them. And we do

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that by loving them.

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It sounds oversimplified, but I
don't think it is. I think

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that's just it. It's an attitude
of love and outreach to help

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those around us all of those
around us, not just our church

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friends. You guys, thank you so
much for being here. I really

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appreciate your time. I hope
that you are learning something

00:28:42.840 --> 00:28:46.920
right along with me. I am
learning a lot. And thank you

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for having fun with me on this.
Have a great week you guys