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Paisley: Hi everybody, Paisley
imperfect here again today. And

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we're gonna jump right in today,
because I think today might go a

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little long. We are. I know that
I've mentioned that before. But

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I love to talk about the plan of
salvation. I love it. Some call

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it the plan of happiness. And
I'm hoping that that is the way

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that we will feel about it when
we're when I'm done with this

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episode. Because I want to focus
on the happiness that comes from

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knowing at least part of the
plan, because I just want to

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focus on one part of it today,
we could talk for hours and

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hours and hours about the plan.
And someday when I get a website

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set up, have a whole page all
just about what we know about

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the plan. But for today, I just
I'm hoping that you'll bear with

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me as I share some of the things
that I've learned over the

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years.

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And I want to focus on the part
of the plan today that comes

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between death and resurrection.
So what happens to us after we

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die, before we are resurrected,
I don't know if you remember,

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but a couple of episodes ago, I
was talking about having the

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constant companionship with the
Holy Ghost. And I read a talk by

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President iring called the Holy
Ghost as your companion. And I

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shared this quote, he said we
need the constant help from the

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companionship of the Holy Ghost.
for yet another reason, the

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death of a loved one may come
unexpectedly, it is the witness

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from the Holy Ghost of the
reality of a loving Heavenly

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Father, and a resurrected Savior
that gives us hope and comfort

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at the loss of a loved one. That
testimony must be fresh when

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death occurs.

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Ever since I read that, for some
reason, in that talk, it just

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felt like it kind of stuck out
like almost like it didn't fit.

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That's how it felt when I first
read it, and so ever since I

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shared it ever since I read it
and then I shared it. It just

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kind of stuck in my head and
stuck in my heart. And then a

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couple of days after that I was
reading the Book of Mormon with

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my oldest daughter. It's part of
our bedtime routine. We read a

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little bit of the Book of Mormon
and then we read a chapter or

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two from a novel together. And
so I was reading the Book of

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Mormon with my oldest daughter,
and it was Saturday night. And

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we've been trying to keep up
with the Come follow me

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curriculum, but we got a little
bit ahead. And so spoiler alert,

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if you're keeping up with the
Come follow me curriculum, I'm

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about to do I'm about to give
you a little bit of a spoiler, I

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think it comes next week. It's
in chapter 40. When we get to

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chapter 40, ALMA, the younger is
talking to his son, Corianton.

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And he's, he tells him a little
bit about the spirit world.

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So the spirit world is where we
go, where our soul goes, where

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our spirit goes, after we die,
and before resurrected, that

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space in between those two
events. And so we were reading

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in Alma, chapter 40. And I'm
just gonna read verses 11 and

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12, and 14. And so this is
again, this is Alma talking to

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his son, Corianton and Corianton
was not his righteous son.

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Corianton wasn't that great of a
guy. And so Alma, I was just

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kind of telling him like, Hey, I
prayed about this. Here's what I

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know.

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He said, Now concerning the
state of the soul, between death

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and the resurrection, behold, it
has been made known unto me by

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an angel, that the spirits of
all men, as soon as they are

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departed from this mortal body.
Yay, the spirits of all men. And

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women, whether they be good or
evil, are taken home to that God

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who gave them life. And then it
shall come to pass that the

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spirits of those who are
righteous are received into a

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state of happiness, which is
called Paradise, a state of

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rest, a state of peace, where
they shall rest from all their

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troubles and from all care and
sorrow. And now verse 14, now

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this is the state of the souls
of the wicked, yay, in darkness

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and a state of awful, fearful
looking, awful, fearful looking

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for the fiery indignation of the
wrath of God upon them. Thus,

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they remain in this state, as
well as the righteous and

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Paradise until the time of their
resurrection.

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So, according to Alma, when we
die, our soul and our body are

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separated. And our soul goes to
depending if we were righteous,

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or just we go to Paradise, place
of rest and rest from all of our

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troubles and cares and sorrow,
place of peace a state of rest.

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If we are wicked, Some darkness,
awful fearful looking for the

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fiery indignation of God.

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So my daughter, and I read that
together. And that kind of stuck

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with me not so much with her.
She seven, not so much with her.

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She had a couple of questions.
It was an interesting

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conversation. But then also, I
mentioned that we read a novel

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together. And we were just
finishing up her first ever

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Nancy Drew book, which childhood
favorite of mine. They're a

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little dated. So it was kind of
an interesting thing. But we had

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just finished up a Nancy Drew
book, and I asked her, which

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book do you want to pick, we
have a pile of books, probably a

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good two feet deep of books that
we have found that we really

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want to read together. And so
she grabbed one of the books off

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the stack, and it's called
Missing may, I'd never heard of

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it before. I'm honestly not even
sure where it came from, or how

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we ended up with it. But it's,
it was also about death. It's

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about a little girl. She's six,
she was six years old when her

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her parents died. And she kind
of got passed around from family

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to family in Ohio. And then her
Aunt May and Uncle Ob came and

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picked her up and essentially
adopted her. And then took her

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to northern West Virginia, where
she lived with them until she

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was 12. And then her aunt Mae
died. And the book is about,

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we're only about halfway
through. But the book is about

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how this girl and her uncle,
kind of find each other again,

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find each other and find peace
find themselves find themselves

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again, because her aunt Mae was
such a huge part of their lives.

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And so I had all of these three
things hit me kind of within

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just a couple of days. And I
said something to my husband

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that night, Saturday night, and
I was like, I feel like, I feel

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like death is following me. I
don't know, I don't know what is

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going on. But it just for some
reason, in all of these things

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that I'm reading, death is just
kind of standing out to me. I

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didn't feel like I don't know, I
don't really I didn't really

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understand what I was feeling.
I'm still not sure what it

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means. I'm hoping that just it
being in the back of my mind.

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I'm I'm hoping that maybe I just
needed to do an episode about

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it. I don't know.

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The next morning at church,
Sunday morning at church, we

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found out that a guy in our ward
was in a pretty bad accident on

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Saturday and actually passed
away. We weren't especially

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close to him. I saw him every
Tuesday when we would show up at

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the church right around the same
time. Because he his calling was

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to work with a little activity
dudes. We call them the boys

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between ages eight and 11. Their
twice monthly activities on

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Tuesday nights. And so I would
see him sometimes at the church

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on Tuesdays. He didn't come to
church on Sundays, he would come

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every once in a while if there
was like somebody coming home

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from a mission or somebody
leaving to go on a mission. He

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served with my husband in scouts
for a while. He just everybody

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knew him and everybody loved him
because he was so friendly. He

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was so nice. He would just was
like this. Like an all star he

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just you couldn't help but like
him. He was a chef. He was a

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spear fisherman. He was a diver.
He did all of these really

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awesome things like he was the
kind of person that you just you

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wanted to associate with because
he did so many cool things. You

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just wanted to hear about him.
You wanted to hear all the

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stories.

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Now, I'm not. I am not claiming
that the spirit was trying to

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tell me that he or anybody else
was going to die. Like I said

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before, I don't know why these
things have been standing out to

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me. I have no idea. I don't know
his by his wife very well at

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all. I don't think I've seen her
in a while. I'm sure I haven't

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seen her in a while. I don't
know his kids very well. He has

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a son and a daughter and his
daughter. She was older than the

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group that I was teaching in
young women's and so I just I

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never really got to know her
very well. But anyway, so this

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this is just it's been on my
mind. And so I wanted to talk

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about it. And I wanted to like
what else do we know about the

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spirit world? So my friend,
where is he? I mean, I think

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he's in a state of rest.

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I hope he's, I hope he's resting
somewhere. First, we all could

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use a little rest, right? But in
the temple prep, so I taught, I

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did a stint as a temple prep
teacher too. And in the temple

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prep teachers manual, by the
way, you all have access to that

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online in case you didn't know.
If you go to libraries, and then

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you go to what was that, again,
you go to libraries, and then

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you go to gospel library. And
you go to, I think it's Yeah,

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books and lessons. And then
there's temple prep. So in the

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temple prep book, in the very
first lesson of the temple prep

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book, there is a there's a
diagram. It's a, it's a, there's

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a diagram about the plan of
salvation, but it's not the one

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that we're used to. It's not the
one that shows like, the

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premortal life, it doesn't have
pictures. It has little boxes

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that you can write scriptures
in. And then the answer key is

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at the bottom, in case you
needed it.

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But in so in the temple prep
book about death and the

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resurrection, it says, we're
about the spirit world. Rather,

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it says when we die, our spirits
enter the spirit world and our

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bodies remain on earth. This
period of separation continues

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until the time of our
resurrection, the spirits of the

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righteous are received into a
state of peace and happiness,

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which is called Paradise. The
spirits of the wicked are placed

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in a state of darkness, which
sometimes is referred to as a

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prison. We got that from Alma
right, then. So I don't know if

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you guys are familiar with tags,
you can tag articles and things,

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when you're studying them either
on your phone, on your tablet,

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online, you can create tags, and
I think I've mentioned this

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before, but I have a whole bunch
of tags. And because I like the

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plan of salvation, so much I tag
things plan of salvation. And

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then I try and like sub tag
them, like which part of the

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plan of salvation is this from.
And I only had two for the

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spirit world, I had one from the
temple prep book that I just

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shared. And then the other one
that I had was for this talk

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from President oaks in October
of 2019, called trust in the

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Lord.

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And he talks, he lays out
everything we know about the

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spirit world, everything we
know, you, it's for sure, we're

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thrilled, I'll make sure it's
linked in the show notes. So you

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can get to it pretty quickly if
you want to. Otherwise, you can

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just go to the church's website
and type in trust in the Lord

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and October 2019. President
oaks. So I'm only going to share

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a few points. But he says he
points out what we've what we've

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already talked about what we
read about in Alma, that there's

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a division between the righteous
and the wicked. And then he

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tells us that the scriptures
quote, also describe how some

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faithful spirits teach the
gospel to those who have been

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wicked or rebellious. Most
important, modern Revelation

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reveals that the work of
salvation goes forward in the

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spirit world. And although we
are urged not to procrastinate

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or repentance during mortality,
we are taught that some

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repentance is possible there.
Some repentance is possible

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there.

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And to be completely honest, I
almost kept that out of this

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because we have to be very, very
careful about procrastinating or

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repentance. And I don't want to
I didn't want to include it with

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the fear that people will be
like, Oh, I have time. Well,

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sure you have time. But some
repentance is possible there. So

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just be careful.

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And then he talks about how all
in the spirit world are under

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some form of bondage. And I
remember I remember when he gave

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this talk, I was just like,
glued to the TV. And then

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reading this again, when I got
to that part, I was like, Wait a

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second, all in the spirit world
are under some form of bondage.

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What about the people in
paradise? What are the What

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about the people who are
resting? Right? Are they really

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in some form of bondage?

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And he said, the spirit world
bondage that applies to

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righteous converted Souls is
their need to await and perhaps

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even be allowed to prompt the
performance of their proxy

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ordinances on Earth, so they can
be baptized and enjoy the

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blessings of the Holy Ghost.

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So two things that I want to
point out in that statement

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number one, people who have not
been baptized, confirmed,

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received their endowment been
sealed to their spouse or sealed

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to their parents can still also
can still also can also be

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considered righteous. Believe it
or not, just because someone

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like Mother Teresa wasn't
baptized into the church of

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Jesus Christ of Latter Day
Saints while she was alive, does

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not make her unrighteous.
righteous people are still

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waiting for their ordinances to
be done. And that is That that

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is their form of bondage.

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Okay. Now, the second thing that
I want to point out in that

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statement is that this is why
temple work is so important. We

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do temple work to release them
from those bonds. We do temple

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work so that they can be
released from those bonds and go

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help teach. And he mentioned
that in his talk to, you should

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for sure go read it.

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Now the bondage for the wicked,
he says, The wicked also suffer

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and additional bondage. Because
of unrepented sins, they are in

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what the Apostle Paul referred
to as spirit prison. These

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spirits are described as bound,
or as captives, or as cast out

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into outer darkness with weeping
and wailing and gnashing of

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teeth as they await resurrection
and judgment. There will still

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be there will still be people
who will reject the opportunity

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to receive their ordinances.
That's their choice. Our

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heavenly Father is never going
to take away our agency. That's

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part of who we are. So they're
just not going to be happy. And

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that's it.

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That's it. That's all we know
about the spirit world.

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President oaks lays it all out.
And then he says, that's what we

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know.

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But I'm not quite done yet.
Because there's more in this

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talk that I think is critical
for us to know and to understand

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about this topic, but it applies
on a more broad spectrum. He

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talks about how lots of people
have had near death experiences

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or like they died for a few
minutes, and they came back.

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They've had inspirations,
they've had personal experiences

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with the spirit world. But he
also reminds us what it takes

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for things like that to become
an actual church doctrine. And

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this is where we have to be
very, very careful. He quotes

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two other apostles, Elder
Christofferson, an elder

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Anderson, and in my my own
opinion, I feel like he's

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quoting these other two so that
he can be like out of the mouth

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of three witnesses. You have now
heard what it takes for

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something to become church
doctrine.

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So he he quotes Elder
Christofferson as saying, Excuse

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me, it should be remembered.
Excuse me, so okay, sorry, Elder

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Christofferson said, quote, it
should be remembered that not

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every statement made by a church
leader, past or present,

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necessarily constitutes
doctrine. It is commonly

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understood in the church that a
statement made by one leader on

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a single occasion, often
represents a personal, the well

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considered opinion, not meant to
be official or binding for the

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whole church. Now think about it
for just a second, things that

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apply to us in the United
States. Some of the ways some of

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the ways in which we are allowed
to worship don't apply

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worldwide. So if somebody's
speaking to us here and telling

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us, we need to go next door, and
talk to our next door neighbor

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and preach the gospel to them,
they can't do that. In countries

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like China. They can't go next
door and teach the gospel to

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their neighbor, they have to
wait to be approached. least

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that's the way it was the last
time I heard. So somebody's

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saying something in a stake
conference down here in Southern

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California may not apply to the
way that something needs to be

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done. Up in Canada, or over in
Africa. It doesn't become

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official or binding for the
whole church.

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Then he quotes elder Anderson as
saying, quote, The doctrine is

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taught by all 15 members of the
First Presidency and quorum of

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the 12. It is not hidden in an
obscure paragraph of one talk.

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And then he gives the family
proclamation as an example. It's

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was signed by all 15 members of
the First Presidency and quorum

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of the 12 apostles when it was
written, church doctrine.

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And then he tells us what we can
do when we have questions that

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we can't find actual doctrine
about. He states it specifically

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about questions regarding the
spirit world. That's what he's

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talking about in this talk. But
he, I think it applies. I think

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it applies more generally. He
says, quote, for all questions

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about the spirit world, I would
suggest two answers.

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Number one, first, remember that
God loves His children, and will

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surely do what is best for each
of us. Second, remember this

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familiar Bible teaching which
has been most helpful to On a

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multitude of unanswered
questions. Okay, newsflash,

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President Oaks has on unanswered
questions. If President Oaks has

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unanswered questions, what does
that say about our on our

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unanswered questions? I'm just
saying, okay, so he quotes

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Proverbs chapter three, trust in
the Lord with all thine heart

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and lean not unto thine own
understanding, in all thy ways

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acknowledge him, and he shall
direct thy paths. And then just

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in case we need a little bit
more, he also quotes Nephi. In

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second Nephi, Chapter Four Nephi
said, Oh, Lord, I have trusted

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in thee, and I will trust in the
Forever I will not put my trust

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in the arm of flesh.

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I used to tell my seminary kids
and my young women, when you

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have a question that you can't
find an answer to write it down.

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One of the jobs of the Holy
Ghost is to bring all things to

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our remembrance, right? If we
write down a question, I even

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one year even gave my seminary
kids little notebooks. Take this

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home, this is your book of
questions. When you have a

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question, you can't find an
answer to you write it down in

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this book. And you just keep
these you keep those questions

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going your whole life, at some
point in your life, some of

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these questions you will find
answers to, and you can cross

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them out, because now you know
the answer to that question.

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Some of them you might not. We
may never know more about the

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spirit world until we actually
get there. So write your

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questions down. And allow the
Holy Ghost time to teach you the

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answers. Allow him the
opportunity to help you find

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them in your personal scripture
study.

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We have to be very careful about
what we teach and what we share

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with others personal revelation
does not necessarily apply

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across the board. President oaks
also said quote, we can all

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wonder privately about
circumstances in the spirit

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world, or even discussed these
or other unanswered questions in

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family or other intimate
settings. But let us not teach

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or use as official doctrine,
what does not meet the standards

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of official doctrine, and he
just gave us the standards.

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Remember, it has to be taught by
all 15 members of the First

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Presidency and quorum of the 12
continuing his quote, to do so

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does not further the work of the
Lord and may even discourage

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individuals from seeking their
own comfort, or edification,

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through the personal revelation.
The Lord's plan provides for

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each of us. excessive reliance
on personal teachings or

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speculations may even draw us
aside from concentrating on

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learning, and efforts that will
further our understanding and

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help us go forward on the
covenant path.

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So we need to be careful. We
need to learn how to recognize

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the Holy Ghost when He speaks to
us. And then when he does, we

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need to trust in those
promptings and also make sure

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that we are still living within
church doctrine. I hope that

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makes sense. Because that's a
really, that's a really deep

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point. And it's a hang up for a
lot of people. We don't know

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everything, we don't have all
the answers, we probably aren't

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going to get them in this life.

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We have to put some trust and
faith in our Heavenly Father and

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in our Savior, we have to, it's,
that's part of the plan. They

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love us. And they will always do
what's best for us. We have to

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trust that we may not understand
right now today, why they're

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leading us down a certain path.
But we can no later, I can't

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remember if I've shared this, I
think I shared it. But maybe

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you'll remember a few years ago
when elder Holland was speaking.

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And he was he was sharing the
story about I think it was him

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and his dad. And they went out
on this dirt road. And they got

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they got kind of lost. They knew
where they were until the road

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forked. And then they were like,
we don't remember which way to

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go. And so they said a prayer
and they felt like they were

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supposed to go in this one
direction. I'm just gonna say

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off to the left. They felt like
they needed to go in this, they

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needed to go on the left fork.
So they took the left fork and

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they took it for like an hour.
And then it just dead ended. And

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And I'm going to use this one
last quote from the very And

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they were like, What the? Why
would he tell us to go on the

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it's the second to the last
paragraph in President Oakes

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wrong road. So then they have to
go back to the fork and then

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talk. He's he tells us what our
responsibility is. He says the

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duty of each of us is to teach
the doctrine of the restored

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take the other fork and the
other fork went for a lot

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gospel. Keep the commandments,
love and help one another and do

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longer. And he obviously I'm
paraphrasing, but he says How

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the work of salvation in the
holy temples. That's it. So now

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have they not taken the wrong
one? They would have started to

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you know everything that we know
about the spirit world, as has

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been revealed church wide. And
what our responsibility is,

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question themselves once they
were on the right one. We have

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trust in our Heavenly Father,
teach the doctrine of the

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gospel, keep the commandments
love one another, love one

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to learn to trust our Heavenly
Father and trust our Savior and

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another and help each other and
do the work of salvation, the

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follow follow their direction.
It's not our job to know

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Holy Temple. And so with that,
I'm just gonna say go and do.

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Thank you, everybody for being
here. Have a great week.

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everything. It's our job to trust.

